Hello and Welcome To another episode of the vlogcast
Today’s topic is Setting/Protecting Boundaries and the technique of the day is Hair-Comb-Ebow Poke
A lady on a date lets call her um you, was asked out to dinner
By a sweet but very large guy we’ll call him Dwayne so dwayne is 6’2 225 …
He picks you up ..on time and during seating at the dinner table taking off your coat your very large and attractive date notices you have a knife on your side and says that’s a very large knife and she/you reply your a very large guy – You would cut me says Dwayne – If I have too -you answer {Freeze frame} Close up…What just happened here!!!
All the boundaries have been reset (inDwaynes head)Can I touch her…Can I get a kiss…One thing is clear Dwayne has to be a gentleman..So let’s talk about Setting and Protecting Your Boundaries.
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Personal boundaries are guidelines, rules or limits that a person creates to identify reasonable, safe and permissible ways for other people to behave towards them and how they will respond when someone passes those limits.[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personal_boundaries#cite_note-1
Sooo your boundaries are those lines that when crossed ,gives you the creeps or makes you uncomfortable.
No-one should invade your personal space or lay a hand on you unless you want them to.
Boundaries are different from person to person,one might welcome a pat on the back another may find it too much and too close,it’s important to know your own boundaries what’s appropriate and what’s not. Unless you’re aware of your own line in the sand it’s difficult to respond when boundaries are crossed
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